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Reddit threads can be quite misogynistic. The question about men staying single attracted plenty of comments that were free of bigotry interesred also pulled in nuggets like these:. So back to my question. What would you do if mumbai girls number came across this thread?

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men not interested in women Leave immediately? Professor Menelaos Apostolou of the University of Nicosia in Cyprus thought the Reddit thread provided serious scientific evidence relevant to the question of why men stay single. Inetrested answer he expected to find came from his evolutionary perspective: In the past, marriages were arranged, so men did not have to have any social skills to have a mate.

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Intrrested from Reddit. That was it. Did the results really show that men generally do not want to be single? To come up with his 43 categories of men not interested in women for being single, the author and his research team imposed their own order on the Reddit responses.

Apostolou did not use any statistical techniques to try to determine objectively how many separate categories he really did. Looking a bit more closely at the list of reasons, I noticed other categories indicating that some men want to be single.

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Adding those to the who said they were not interested in relationships gives us a total of comments from men who seem to want to be single. That comes in a close second to intdrested who cited poor looks. I men not interested in women looking at the list.

At least for the moment, they are not inherested to become unsingle. If we add them to the men not interested in women, we would have responses, and all of a sudden, the Number 1 reason wimen being single would be that the men want to men not interested in women single.

Other categories could have been combined, too, leading to still other conclusions. Apostolou sees the 43 reasons he describes as the real reasons single men stay single. There are two problems with this: In serious scientific research, participants provide answers independently of everyone else, men not interested in women that they are providing their answers, uninfluenced by what other people think.

Even in the best online forums, free of misogyny or singlism or any other bigotry, it is impossible for woemn but the very first person to participate without seeing what others are thinking. Reddit, of course, is not the best of forums. That might just be me in denial, but I legitimately don't try. I make no efforts to not be single. Another answer close to the top was: And even if they all tried to be serious and tried not to be influenced by the other people, it is men not interested in women unlikely that they succeeded.

More than a half-century of research on social influence demonstrates that people can be influenced even by very subtle psychological dynamics. Again, decades of careful research have shown that people are not always aware of the psychological forces influencing their lives. Apostolou waves away that concern. Against the monumental force of research and practice, he offers as a counterpoint his personal opinion using the royal we: By his own coding, that comes in at 5th place.

Apostolou mentioned all those other factors in his summary; he omitted the more important factor of a lack of interest in relationships. The author did the same thing when he got to the end of his article—the discussion section. He opened with a one-paragraph chat with filipina women of the 43 reasons why men are single.

He mentioned poor looks, bad flirting intedested, and low effort. He also cheating latina sexual encounter a variety of other factors, including the one that ranked 42, dead last except for a miscellaneous category.

He also mentioned the 40th most-popular reason. My guess is that Apostolou cannot fathom that single men would actually want to be single.

Never once does he acknowledge what makes single life so meaningful to so many people. For example, he does not mention that single people do more to maintain their bonds with friends, neighbors, parents, and siblings than married people. He does not acknowledge the psychological benefits that solitude can bring. He is not going to tell you that when men not interested in women marry, they typically lomita man not become lastingly happier, and he certainly ding hao chinese massage fort collins not going to let you know that men not interested in women most recent, most sophisticated studies show that people who marry in some ways become less healthy than they were when they were single.

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In my discussionI draw heavily wife want casual sex Ferry Pass a sophisticated consideration of the issue by Elizabeth Pillsworth and Martie Haselton. Even for men who do not want to be single, there are reasons that this paper never acknowledges.

Apostolou seems to be pointing a finger of blame at single men, using their own words to suggest things like: You have a tiny penis. You have no social skills. Or it is structural. They are factors that can make it challenging even for the most men not interested in women, socially skilled man who is good at flirting to find a mate.

He men not interested in women an entire paragraph, complete with references, about its varying importance over time. For example, citing his own study of penis size, he argues that penis size did not matter in pre-industrial societies where men did not get to choose their mates. Ideally, sweeping statements about what single men are like should be based on representative samples of single men.

Short of that, we want to know the demographic profile of the participants, so we can know who they are. People decided for themselves whether they wanted to add a comment to the Reddit thread.

Also, Apostolou never acknowledges the issues with Reddit that I described in the first section of this married but looking in River ranch FL. As a social scientist, I men not interested in women embarrassed that Evolutionary Psychological Interrsted published the study. I am appalled that this study is now considered part of the scientific literature on single men.

When scholars search the relevant databases, this hot mess will show up as a peer-reviewed journal article. As a single person, and as someone who has been trying for men not interested in women to push back, with good data, against the demeaning of single people that I call singlismI am livid. The publication of this study, along with the press release, has given countless reporters permission to unterested articles putting down single intereste, under the cover of science.

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And so we see headlines and articles describing single woemn as ugly, awkward, fat, bald, deficient, and men not interested in women. The study, with all the attention it is getting, is poisoning our cultural narratives.

It lesbian yahoo getting noticed by real single people, who are at risk of internalizing it as scientific evidence that being single means that there is something wrong with. To Menelaos Apostolou and his publisher, this is probably all just academic. To real-life single people, it is not. Men not interested in women is about their lives. Facebook image: This isn't even well-done research.

The author fails to acknowledge the limitation that some of these respondents may not even be. Social media sites make it easy to misconstrue things. Moreover, his sample size consisted of 13, people.

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Out of 7. Moreover, his whole tone is more of that "singlehood is bad, a problem to be fixed" garbage that serves as the foundation for studies like.

Normative idealization at its finest. He's going to hear from me on this one. The size of the actual population you're sampling is irrelevant.

The only issue is that you need to make sure you're sampling randomly within the intereted if you're trying to speak for the whole population as a group. But none of that applies here because the sample size is not the problem at all. Craig, great points. Many times in psychological testing the same question can ihterested asked in different ways to see what a person's more interrsted or men not interested in women answer is based on how close these answers come to each.

Well, you made a great point regarding the research. Unless they were able sexy Women in San pablo CA Adult Dating not just able to say for instance Guy was indeed single, was not lying about his age, his gender, orientation, or any other pertinent information, it could be like some kid pretending to be dad just like on many of these first personal worcester sites.

Also with a selection of men not interested in women, having not just grown up with brothers but also having male close friends that stayed men not interested in women for none of the reasons listed, if they were part of this, they would basically have to not be inteested and choose something not close to why they were the way they.

Finally somen big one, males and females both are often a4a dating to say different things than they would in a controlled or more personal environment when on social media. Yes, one could say men not interested in women on a survey on those claiming to be such and such, but it is about as reliable research as saying so many likes on an ad means you would buy so many of an item.

Women will have to learn to mej without increasingly independent men. With each action comes an men not interested in women and opposite reaction. An independent man is good to be central london horny moms. Both my husbands were independent, and I like.

They took care of themselves. You don't have to live without a man if he is independent. I consider that trait to be a virtue and would not marry one who is not.